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When we鈥檙e listening to another person, we can鈥檛 control what they say or how they say it. But we can control what we say in response. Responding with grace means extending kindness and understanding, even when faced with difficult circumstances or differing opinions.
To do so should mean first listening, not interrupting, and hearing someone out. We can鈥檛 give a thoughtful response to someone if we haven鈥檛 heard the fullness of their side. Giving the respect of our full attention gives someone the honor that their words and opinions are important to us.
Then we practice being slow to speak. We give true consideration to what the other person says. This gives us time to absorb alternate ideas we hadn鈥檛 previously considered. And even if our minds don鈥檛 change, it gives us time to measure our response and the impact it might have before speaking. It allows time to let emotional reactions recede, God鈥檚 Word to fill our heart and mind, and anger to become replaced with grace and gentleness as we respond.
If we cultivate this spirit of grace in our interactions, we can represent Jesus鈥檚 example of empathy and patience. And our conversations can build up, encourage and honor others.