When we look at ourselves and others, we often focus on what’s different – what seems to us like a limitation or a challenge. But God’s perspective is so much bigger. He doesn’t see anyone as incomplete or lacking. Instead, he sees his purpose and design in every person, including those with disabilities.
We’re created with intention
Genesis 1:27 tells us that every human being is created in the image of God. That truth doesn’t have exceptions. Every person is a reflection of God’s creativity and love, and that includes how they are uniquely made.
Disabilities are not accidents or mistakes – they’re part of God’s design, woven into his plan for that person’s life. Each of us is uniquely crafted by God, and that includes every aspect of who we are. What we might see as a limitation, God sees as an opportunity for his grace, power, and purpose to shine through in extraordinary ways.
In Psalm 139:13-14, we’re reminded, “You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother’s womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous – how well I know it.”
God’s design is deliberate, and nothing about us – including disabilities – is outside his careful, thoughtful creation. Through every unique trait, ability, and challenge, he equips each person to live a life full of meaning and impact. Disabilities don’t diminish a person’s value; they highlight God’s creativity and the beauty of his diverse design for humanity.
God sees what’s most important
When Samuel was tasked with choosing a king, God reminded him, “The Lord doesn’t see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7).
What God values most is who we are at our core. Our abilities, challenges, and differences are all part of how he shapes us, but they don’t define our worth. They’re opportunities for God to work through us and in us in ways we may not expect.
We’re all designed to make an impact
Every one of us is created for a purpose, and that includes those with disabilities. Ephesians 2:10 reminds us, “We are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.”
Disabilities are not barriers to God’s work. They’re often avenues for his power and love to shine even brighter. Whether it’s leading a Group, serving in a ministry area, praying for others, or being a voice of encouragement, all people have unique ways of reflecting God’s heart and making a difference.
How can I love others as they are?
Jesus gives us a clear command to love one another as he has loved us. In John 13:34-35, he says, “Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.”
Loving others as they are – fully and without conditions – requires us to be intentional. Here are a few ways to put this into action:
- Take time to listen and learn. Everyone’s story is unique. Ask thoughtful questions, listen without judgment, and seek to understand the perspective and experiences of others.
- Focus on strengths, not challenges. Celebrate the gifts and abilities that God has given each person rather than dwelling on what the world may see as limitations. (Remember, God doesn’t see anyone as incomplete or lacking!)
- Be inclusive in your relationships and activities. Seek out people whose lived experiences are different than yours and look for ways to invite and include different them in your life, church, and community. Genuine inclusion shows value and care.
- Offer support without assumptions. Be ready to help, but don’t assume someone with a disability needs or wants assistance. Respect their independence and dignity by asking how you can best support them.
- Speak and act with respect. Use language and behaviors that honor the person rather than their condition. Treat them as equals, because that’s exactly who they are.
Loving others as they are is not just a nice idea – it’s a reflection of God’s heart for his people. When we make the effort to love intentionally, we help create a community where every person is valued and celebrated.
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